Comfort With Change Changes Everything!
Shall we explore that?
The usual self-help journey towards more health, wealth, happiness and success begins with resources (books, recordings, seminars, retreats,…) that will provide you with instructions, advice, and encouragement for making the change(s) you want in your life.
What a great start.
And then you give it your all. For… a while.
Certainly in the beginning you’re motivated and maybe even bewitched by your untapped potential for growth and improvement.
Good for you! It’s the ideal beginning for your journey. You’re excited to start seeing results.
In time, however you notice a troubling development hiding in plain sight.
It’s not working.
That’s right. Something must be broken. And it’s not clear what. Furthermore, it also doesn’t seem to be working for anybody else. So it can’t possibly be you (and it isn’t).
After all, you ponder, if self-help works so well, then where are all the thinner, fitter, healthier, richer, lighter, prettier, smarter, in better relationships, and closer-to-God superstars created by this multi-billion-dollar self-help industry?
Some give up early, it’s true. That’s understandable. They’re trying to hold their lives together while simultaneously looking for solutions that’ll make it better.
But not you. With your dreams still intact you continue trying, searching, failing and then restarting. Your optimism is commendable.
However, what do you think happens to even the most ambitious dream weaver if she accidentally misses the one, real predictor of positive emotional change and improvement? That one thing which in your case is now keeping you apart from your dreams?
That one thing that’s broken?
You’re right. What’s broken is your heart.
Ouch.
And So…???
Well, that’s important you see.
Because how you feel in your heart – about creating the changes you need – which will produce the life you want,… will always supersede the efforts of your mind to create them.
That is, for happiness to reign again in your life, how you want to feel must become more important to your heart than the painful thoughts in your head creating your lack of happiness.
Mother Nature’s Rules, not ours.
Apparently the mind won’t GO where the heart says NO.
And the broken heart’s favorite word is, “No.” Because it’s scared of the two of you becoming more hurt than you already are.
So regrettably, and through absolutely no fault of your own, you find your emotional rudder stuck. All because of the unavoidable and mostly imaginary, silly human fear of further hurt from change.
Been there, and done that. It’s not fair, we remember. But can you see the problem? In how you might be trying to solve your problem? 😀
How you might be overlooking an invisible detail – your instinctive challenge with change? – while trying to explain your lack of results from your self-help?
Problem Solved!
So here’s where we come in.
We call it extra help for your self-help.
Come and listen to a story about learning to make change fun – and you happy in the process – on the way to enriching your life.
By following Mother Nature’s Rules. (again!) In particular the Rule where voluntary change must be fun and make you happy in the process of achieving your desired result. Or you won’t.
Change, that is. In which case, bye-bye results.
The story we’ve written for you is about a fun, happy and enriching approach to creating the life of your dreams – by purposefully warming your heart up, first.
Only then are you ready to seriously engage your mind, brain, and soul in creating your new life. Then the four of you can collaborate on your mission, of creating the rich and rewarding life you desire.
So far so good?
If so, then you’re going to love what comes
next.
Change Your Story, Change Your Life
Now here’s more on our prescription for your new lease on a self-improved life. It’s really simple.
So, if you’re still with us, terrific.
You need to start
telling yourself a better story.
About how the life of your dreams is still waiting for you.
And about the relationship you want to cultivate between your heart, your head – your thoughts, and your feelings – and your desire for change.
This new story will replace your current (old) one.
Where you can’t. Change, that is.
But where to begin?
Our recommendation is a starter story. And wouldn’t you know it, we just happen to have written one for you (below).
We call it Making Change Finally Make Sense.
Let’s explore whether or not you can see yourself working with the following formula. It covers the steps that’ll take you from old, to better, to new.
Where the life of your dreams is
still waiting for you.
So, then: on to our story.
Three Chapters in seven minutes – with the power to change your life.
Hang in there, we’re just getting
started.
If you already know why you’re here, then you can get started, below. In exchange for your email address we’ll slide you into the information loop that’ll solve your challenge with change.
Making Change Friendly Again: A Modern Story
You already know how it begins, this new story of yours: at the END of your old story.
Where despite your best efforts, you haven’t been able to make the changes that will create The Life Of Your Dreams.
Instead, you are just another disappointed seeker of personal growth and improvement who’s unable to get out of her no-help-from-self-help rut.
Which is okay. You’re fine. It happens.
Then one day you realize by being honest with yourself that you also don’t even feel worthy of the changes you need to make, to fix the fact that you can’t change.
Which is a paradox you’re unable to reconcile. (it’s okay, we did – and we’ll show you)
This is no Harlequin romance you’re reading to yourself these days; it’s a full-blown dystopian horror story. But you also don’t give up.
Which, BTW, instantly sets you apart from the crowd. So good for you.
(Editor’s Note: The moral of your new story will be that your lack of Comfort With Change is keeping you from a fulfilling future where you’re living your dreams. It has nothing to do with your ability to create your desired future outcomes. But we don’t cover that here.)
And that’s when something revolutionary jumps out in front of you.
(Act 1) You Stumble Across A Plan.
“The path to happiness is paved through the magic of play.” ~ Professor Gad Saad
Literally, for creating that ‘better story’ mentioned above. Where how you want to feel is going to start overwhelming how you regularly think.
In this ‘improvement’ story of yours, you take back your life from the tyrannical blob in your head that’s controlling you. Then you can return to chasing your dreams. By first staying committed to telling yourself the truth.
No offense, but probably more often than you currently do.
Why?
First for how it feels (liberating), and then for how it fits into your new strategy (perfectly).
Next you discover that this plan you’ve stumbled upon involves playing an elite GAME. It’s for people like you who are seeking Comfort With Change. Which is a mouthful but it makes sense, since games are a magical way to learn, creating results from the natural desire to win.
Apparently this Game has been developed by these two fellows you’ve recently heard about (in our story, that’s us) 😊.
The Game of Change, as they (we) call it, is their revolutionary combination of models, maps, stories, systems and cycles, Game Theory, pattern recognition, rules of engagement with the enemies inside and out, good ol’ human nature, and a heap of common sense.
All still a Game, and all designed with one purpose in mind: to give you back your Constitutionally-protected right to the pursuit of however much happiness you want in your life. By leap-frogging right over over your fearful challenge with change. And the pain it’s causing you.
Mother Nature’s Rules to the rescue
again: How you want to feel while
playing any game guides your mind in fulfilling your desire.
(Act 2) And There’s More
Now that you’ve turned a major corner in your trajectory towards Comfort With Change, you find one more gem in the formula for creating it. It’s designed to maximize your enthusiasm for play and keep you focused on winning.
For this new and interesting game of yours includes a no-charge, voluntary, and completely anonymous social Forum.
It’s made available to all players. It’s for their further discussion, sharing, comparing of conclusions, practicing, testing, laughing (often at themselves!) and finally peer-driven-and-supported help in mastering the lessons inside the core plan.
Mother Nature’s core plan. For you.
The one that’s already been written for you; if you will only choose to start swinging from it and putting your life back together.
So you can get back to putting together all the self-development, personal growth, happiness-and-success-generating improvements that currently represent the life of your dreams.
It’s a community that sees and tells only the truth.
For the love, kindness, action, freedom and results it always produces.
The creators of The Game are also the moderators of the Forum. So you’re safe, served, and protected by the best.
Imagine that. You suddenly have friends who are as genuinely interested in meeting and working with you as you will be soon, too. That is, when other new members begin arriving and you feel capable of helping them with the results and lessons from your own journey.
To abundant happiness and success. And every other prescription for the ideal
life of your dreams which you fancy.
(Act 3) Understanding Your Competition
But make no mistake. As in any Game worth getting good at you may have to learn some of the lessons the hard way. How hard is up to you.
For example, we’re talking here about you playing The Game of Change against an invisible enemy inside your head that’s stupid, reckless and blind – and that can be dangerous. This delusional enemy’s sole purpose is to cause you to fear changing your mind by putting tripwires all around you that you’re pre-calculated to be unable to avoid.
Those traps are connected directly to – where else? – your heart. Your broken heart. So we’ll have to proceed with the utmost of kindness, care and caution.
As you likely already know, our connection to God – to our Source – is through the human heart. So that is where your competition will always strike first.
But then, as if an internal adversary weren’t enough, there’s the whole fucked-up presence of an external army of challengers pitted against you. And they’re every bit as conniving and convincing as the internal version.
NOTE: We’ll explain and describe both types to you further in The Game, but suffice to say for now that their collective life’s mission is pure sorcery. It’s aimed at preventing you from repairing the breach, from healing your broken heart, from remembering how much fun your life can be, and ultimately from allowing it to make you happy again.
The way you used to be. Which means, in essence, that The Game of Change is less about learning to play it as it is remembering that you already know how.
Your external competition’s thirst
for control of your life through any means of demoralization available to it is
insatiable. Until it’s stopped. And learning how to do that – how to quickly
and sensibly separate yourself from the tsunami of useless knowledge that
surrounds and devours us – is the purpose of The Game of Change.
That is, you don’t want to try and arrest these stealth radical intruders into your lifestyle. There’s no point, since they’re too big to break, and it won’t change what needs to be changed right now (you).
What you want instead is to end the constant brainwashing – to stop needing, believing and following them – as if you have no option.
And follow your heart, instead. It’s a simple transition. We did it, and now we want to show you how.
How to stop
relying on your captured mind to get you to your next level of happiness. And
learn to trust your heart to show you the way.
Then and only then, can you bring in your mind to fulfill the
battle-plan and take you to your dreams.
We don’t wish to frighten you away from your plan. Just be ready for some initial, predatory, internal and external resistance towards continuing your journey to the strong, healthy and happy destination you desire.
Are you still with us?
Because this is the part where you take charge of your thoughts and begin exposing and eliminating the hidden, hazardous-to-your-health habits currently keeping your old story alive.
You’ll know them by how they make your feel. But they show up first in the way you think.
Your competition in The Game is actually keeping your bad habits alive. Which means ‘they’ are creating most if not all your grief.
It may be hard for you to face your more hazardous habits but the good news is they’re only thoughts. You’ll win The Game when you substitute their negative influence with simple musings on how much you love to feel good.
And there’s your secret weapon.
Direct from Mother Nature to you. We call it The Patch Adams Effect, named after the movie. It’s worth watching (again?) if you want a preview of where this is heading and why it works.
So that’s where you’ll start pushing the buttons. To free your mind, and bring victory within reach against these internal and external enemies of yours.
You’ll conquer the competition by Cracking the Code on Happiness. So you can return to chasing your dreams.
In case even more happiness is on your list for an ideal future.
Badda-bing, badda-boom, anyone? 
Now it’s your turn to make change
finally make sense.
How It Feels Is Why We Play
You will feel Comfort With Change before you can name it. It’s a steady crescendo in warm, creative, loving voices inside your head – imagine the relief! – until you no longer have to work at creating them.
That’s when your heart takes over completely from your head, and the thoughts you want come to you involuntarily.
And so begins the arrival and enjoyment of the future quality-of-life you desire.
Ahhhhh…
So, welcome back: how’d we do? Did our story make sense?
Because there’s just one more item we’d like to propose for you.
Which is that we’ve always had in our
heads the start of a revolution. Perhaps
when you’re ready you’ll consider joining it.
A what?…
That’s right. A revolution. Because then we would have the honor of a lifetime, to help the children remember to not forget what they already know. About making change stick.
For you see, the little geniuses already change their minds in a heartbeat if the change promises to make them happier (which is exactly what you’re trying to remember how to do).
So, at the first sign of the ordinary human fear of change, the little darlings will be ready. They’ll know how to respond. With their own little plan.
Because they’ll learn it from you.
It’ll obviously be a version of your training which is obviously better matched to young minds. The key difference is it won’t include the part where you want, need, try and discover in frustration that you can’t, change.
Because they still can.
And our plan is to help them to never forget that.
Ideally you’ll be like a first responder. Trained and prepared to guide, coach and encourage them through the progression of steps which you’ll have already learned.
Wanna Play, Too?
There’s more inside on the methods and mechanics of our system for creating Comfort With Change.
We have a book and a Course, too, on learning the process; aka, playing The Game of Change, to win the Game of Life.
Making the life of your dreams an unavoidable certainty. Send us an email (below) and we’ll start you off slowly.
Meanwhile, have a terrific
journey. Stay safe, stay warm, and follow the Rules
(and you know whose!).
P.S. As of this writing the world is entering into a new era. It’ll include exposure to and discovery of truths previously kept from us, including retribution for that abuse.
That is, a time of Big Change.
It’s already inevitable, so all that’s left is for you to be prepared. To conquer your enemy and then go get your dreams.
How? Well, imagine your ease with the unfolding tsunami of unpleasant facts and feelings from ‘out there’ as they arrive and test the world’s beliefs, while you’re already invested in a personalized version of that same process.
Change always begins with one person at a time doing something different with her beliefs. From there you can graduate to an ease with the false beliefs being decreed around and beyond you.
You’ll know exactly how to love the people you love, into and through the elegant mess we’re going to find around us. And let’s not forget about the impact your understanding and walking your new talk will have on our children and the future we can be proud to leave for them.
Where cheating, lying and encouraging that kind of insidious behavior as if it’s a right, will no longer be protected.
We encourage you to choose well. All in the name of first Improving The Quality Of Your Desire For Happiness.
By adopting a mindset. Which gives you permission to start thinking differently about the things that you think. So that you can start changing your heartset. And together have a magical time bringing your life to the conclusion you want for it.
You’ve got this.
You were obviously destined for this.
And we’ve got you.
Imagine that!